tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10577336.post7348371039919392797..comments2023-09-27T06:16:44.608-04:00Comments on I wanna go fast: What my mom didahamoshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03102279920238148300noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10577336.post-83791966812934204972010-03-10T16:55:35.365-05:002010-03-10T16:55:35.365-05:00Wow. Your mom sounds like a piece.
A huge lesson...Wow. Your mom sounds like a piece. <br /><br />A huge lesson I've learned this year is that just because someone is family doesn't mean they have your best interests at heart. Especially if all they can see is their own interests. <br /><br />Someone said that very thing to my mom after my dad died, and my brother punched them in the face. He said it felt pretty good. <br /><br />Hugs, Big A. Big big hugs.Boohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05343535408071945002noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10577336.post-75313300944046796762010-03-05T21:39:35.354-05:002010-03-05T21:39:35.354-05:00Seriously, this has my mother-in-law written all o...Seriously, this has my mother-in-law written all over it. We won't leave Matthew alone with her either. Sorry you're having to deal with so much in a year's time.Cindy Matejkahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05262569144599253841noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10577336.post-37424505441578176082010-02-28T17:52:17.507-05:002010-02-28T17:52:17.507-05:00What's unfortunate is when you come to that po...What's unfortunate is when you come to that point in your life where you have to make the decision to continue on an unhealthy and damaging relationship (or lack thereof) or let go and finally break ties with that toxic person. I've had to do the same thing, and it's never easy. I miss my dad, but the man that he is today is not the dad I miss. Sometimes I wonder if I made the right decision, but then he always does something that solidifies my feelings on that. <br />I can't tell you anything you don't already know about this situation, but from the sounds of it at the very least cutting ties (even mostly) with her is probably the best thing for your and Alastair's mental health.<br />Best wishes for you both.xhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01511781747964656894noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10577336.post-13903377948965563052010-02-27T15:22:31.167-05:002010-02-27T15:22:31.167-05:00What the ever loving fuck? Yeah - that woman sound...What the ever loving fuck? Yeah - that woman sounds like poison - you have enough hurdles don't let that sick woman be another one.Edennoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10577336.post-18294494210613808292010-02-26T17:15:26.100-05:002010-02-26T17:15:26.100-05:00Even though I only see one side of the story here ...Even though I only see one side of the story here that conduct is so mindboggling that I couldn't agree more with your decision. And if she wonders why, sit her down for a facts of life talk that spells out non-negotiable conditions for her to have contact with you and Alastair ever again.<br /><br />It's a shame the son has to be the grownup. Be prepared for when Alastair starts asking about her sometime though.lordhelmetnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10577336.post-37911423787612866532010-02-26T16:20:26.492-05:002010-02-26T16:20:26.492-05:00She's off the rowboat. If she can't be sup...She's off the rowboat. If she can't be supportive of you, it's perfectly acceptable to cast to her the sea to drift away on a piece of floating wood, far from where she can hurt you and your boy.<br /><br />You're doing the right thing.Meggrs (Pajiba reader)noreply@blogger.com